Meeting the Doctors

Well its been a while since I wrote. So much seems to have happened. Each day seems so full to me - just not enough hours in the day. I realize that I started writing about our trip to Cleveland but just stopped. So much has happened since but I will try to summarize as best possible.

Meeting the Doctors:
Meeting Dr Parikh felt a bit like meeting a world famous actor. I had read so many of this man's articles on the web, seen so much about him on the UMDF (united mitocondrial disease foundation) site and more than anything used the mito handbook and emergency letter produced by the UMDF with Cleveland Clinic. I seriously felt as though the literature from them was a little light in the dark. I was convinced that had it not been for these documents, information on the web, I would be way behind. I also was sure that Talia's last hospital recovery had been thanks to this literature - so I enetered the appointment with so much expectation. Needless to say, he more than lived up to them.

My sister-in-law completely took charge of Tália, singing, playing, even feeding her at one point. She knew how important these appointments were to me. I arrived with a notebook bursting with questions, with a folder of notes bursting at the seams news and a dictaphone, looking more like a ews reporter than a mum, I guess. Probably a Drs greatest nightmare - opinionated mum, wanting to understand everything and unwilling to stop - but hey what can I do.

Dr Parikh sat with me for a good two and a half hours and his patience was astounding. He literally sat down and chatted me through his thinking process and put it all in layman's terms. This was what I needed. Someone to talk to, someone to question, someone who wouldn't laugh at my perhaps, basic questions. In fact, he empathised warmly and immediately I felt at ease. How my sister-in-law sat through it with Talia and did not even bat an eyelid or mention the time is beyond me. Now that I am home and re-living it, I just really am beginning to realize how much she did for me. I was so focused on the meeting that I just left it all to her. Talia felt so comfy with her. So happy.

Clearing a few Doubts

One of my key reasons for going to Cleveland was to find out whether the diagnosis was correct. Did Talia really have a multiple complex deficiency? Whilst I was led to believe she had primary mito, some things didn't stack up. Her complete doll like appearance and stature for one. I searched for images on the web. I searched for parents with kids with mito but couldn't pigeon-hole her. Then I discovered MOPD and Russel Silver and whilst many Drs say she does not have dwarfism, I am still unconvinced. Dr Parikh confirmed to me that whilst nothing was clearcut, that my line of thinking could be correct - the mito could actually be secondary ( eg a symptom to something else)and probably was. Naturally, in order to get to the bottom of this, more testing would need to be done to eliminate syndromes such as prader-willi etc.